He Feared

 

Why men grow unfaithful varies from man to man.  The faith of Demas failed because he loved the world; the faith of Diotrephes failed because he loved the preeminence; the faith of the man I am about to talk about failed because of fear.

 

Of course, there is a sense in which faith never fails.  It is the man who fails, fails to have faith in sufficient strength to remain faithful.  It is a challenge to all men to develop a strong faith. 

 

Paul, in writing to the Christians in Ephesus, in chapter 6 verse 11, tells them to, “Put on the full armor of God, that you may be able to stand firm against the schemes of the devil.” (NAS)  In verse 13 he explains saying, “that you may be able to resist in the evil day, and having done everything, to stand firm.”  In speaking of this armor he refers to faith as a shield (verse 16).

 

In ancient times in battle as long as a man had a shield and could keep it placed between his body and the swords, spears, and other weapons of the enemy his safety was assured.  Take the shield away from the soldier and his prospects for survival were greatly diminished.  Paul, is telling us all that if we will build our faith strong enough we cannot be defeated in the battle for our spiritual life.

 

The Bible teaches us clearly that faithfulness is directly associated with obedience and vice versa.  In Hebrews chapter 3 toward the end of the chapter the writer is discussing the children of Israel who came out of Egypt under the leadership of Moses.  He tells of God’s anger against them because of their sin and then says, “And to whom did He swear that they should not enter His rest, but to those who were disobedient?  And so we see that they were not able to enter because of unbelief.”  (Heb. 3:18-19, NAS)  A lack of a strong faith kept them from faithfully obeying, led to their disobedience, and kept them out of the promised land. 

 

When we become strong enough in our faith that we are convinced that hell is just around the corner and that the only thing keeping us from going there is faithful obedience we will be faithful.  Sin is a direct result of a weak faith.  We some how convince ourselves that we can disobey God and yet be saved which is another way of saying we do not believe what God has said.  To quote the Hebrew writer speaking of Jesus, Hebrews 5:9 (NKJV), “he became the author of eternal salvation to all who obey him.”  We either believe that or we do not. 

 

But, who was the man whose fear led him to sin and unfaithfulness?  The apostle Peter’s faith failed him 3 times out of fear.  He walked on the water believing Jesus would make this possible for him until his faith failed.  He denied Jesus 3 times after Jesus was arrested.  Finally, in Galatians the 2nd chapter Paul tells us Peter withdrew from eating with the Gentiles sinning and that out of fear.

 

The account of Peter walking on the water is found in Matt. 14:25-31.  Jesus had just fed the 5,000 and then immediately had sent the disciples in a boat across the Lake of Gennesareth while he dismissed the crowd.  Having accomplished that Jesus went up on the mountain to pray and then late in the night took out across the lake walking on the water with the intention of passing by the boat unnoticed.  The sea was rough that night with a wind beating against the boat making progress slow and probably keeping about all of them awake and alert.

 

The disciples saw what they took to be a ghost walking across the water causing them great fear as it would any human being.  The Bible says (Matt. 14:26, NAS), “they cried out for fear.”  Jesus then speaks up and says to them “Take courage, it is I, do not be afraid.” (Matt. 14:27, NAS)

 

The text says that Peter answered, “Lord, if it is You, command me to come to You on the water.” (Matt. 14:28, NAS)  While Peter uses the word “if” it seems almost certain that he recognized the voice of Jesus.  Why else would he dare take that first step out of the boat.  We often use the word “if” not to express doubt but just as a manner of speech.  We sometimes tell a person to do this or that if they can while knowing full well they can. 

 

Peter did walk on the water for awhile, until his faith failed him.  The Bible says “seeing the wind, he became afraid” (Matt. 14:30, NAS).  Jesus’ response to Peter was “O you of little faith, why did you doubt?”  (Matt. 14:31, NAS)

 

We learn from this passage that there is power in faith, power to protect.  As long as faith had the ascendancy Peter was protected from drowning.  We also learn that one needs to build his faith beyond that which is described by Jesus himself as “little faith”.  Little faith is not a shield for us nor was it for Peter.  Great faith is.

 

And, finally, we learn fear was the cause of faith failing.  Fear is the opposite of faith.  What faith will allow you to do fear will keep you from doing.  Fear will keep you from obedience.  Remember the children of Israel fearing the inhabitants of the promised land?  Fear will condemn you.

 

Rev. 21:8 reads as follows in the NKJV, “But the cowardly, unbelieving, abominable, murderers, sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death.”  The old KJV and the ASV use the word “fearful” rather than the word cowardly.  If fear is a sin then surely there is a way to overcome it lest we all be condemned.  More about that later.

 

The second instance of Peter’s faith failing him because of fear was when the Lord was arrested and Peter followed after him into the courtyard of the high priest.  We all remember how confident Peter was in his faith.  He tells the Lord that even if he has to die he will not deny him.  We know the rest of the story.

 

We ought not to be over confident.  Until our faith is tested we can talk all we want.  The proof is in the testing.  Many people fail at this point.  You and I perhaps have also.   We are okay when there are no problems but when things turn against us we begin to doubt God’s love and care for us.  That leads to disobedience and doing our own thing apart from God.  Our thinking is if God cared he would not have allowed this to happen.  Since it happened he does not care.  If he does not care for me then what is the use?  We drift away.  Our fail has failed.

 

Peter was under great stress.  These people who have arrested Jesus mean business.  Death is a real possibility.  With the threat of death it has become dangerous to be a disciple.  His faith is tested.  He is afraid and his faith fails.  He is no longer loyal to the Lord.

 

Peter feared for his physical safety.  We are critical and discuss his failure as though we have had none of our own.  The threat to Peter was much greater than the threats we face.  It is easy to see how he became fearful.  We talk about him

 

Yet, in our own life we refuse to take a stand on issues, refuse to talk to people about Christ and the faith, hide our own faith and religion, will not say anything that would bring upon us the disfavor of brethren or of our peers, because we are afraid of what that would lead to, and then lay claim that Peter was fearful and we would not be like him.   No we would not be.  We would not even enter the courtyard. 

 

The challenge is to get an honest picture of our own faith and strength. 

 

The final account we have of Peter’s faith failing him because of fear is found in Galatians chapter two where Paul tells us about it.   Paul says of Peter (Gal. 2:11, NAS), “he stood condemned”.  His sin was that of refusing to eat with the Christian Gentiles when Christian Jews arrived from Jerusalem. 

 

Paul says “he began to withdraw and hold himself aloof, fearing the party of the circumcision.” (Gal. 2:12, NAS)  Here we have the case of an apostle sinning because of the fear of men, the fear of brethren in Christ, the fear of what they would think, say, and possibly do (cause him trouble).  If an apostle can be afraid of men certainly it is very possible for you and I to be. 

 

Jesus said, (Matt. 10:28, NAS), “And do not fear those who kill the body, but are unable to kill the soul; but rather fear Him who is able to destroy both soul and body in hell.”  We are not to be afraid and cowardly but we too often are.  The question then becomes one of how do I overcome the tendency to be afraid of men and what they will say and do?  How do I develop a faith strong enough to overcome my fears?  That is the subject of the rest of this paper.

 

Fear seems to come to us all naturally in one form or another.  There are all kinds of phobias that people have as I am sure you are well aware.  Fear is not always a bad thing to have.  For their personal safety there are many things we would like our children to be afraid of. 

 

The Bible teaches us we are to fear God.  Remember the words of Jesus already referenced in this article when he says, “fear Him who is able to destroy both soul and body in hell.”  (Matt. 10:28, NKJV)  Solomon tells us, “Fear the Lord and depart from evil.” (Prov. 3:7,  NKJV) and again he says, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge”. (Prov. 1:7, NKJV)  We are to work out our own salvation with fear and trembling as Paul tells us in Phillipians 2:12.

 

We need to have such respect for God and his word that we are afraid to disobey him.  Strange as it may seem this kind of fear of God ultimately leads us to the point in our Christian life where there is no fear.

 

John says, in 1 John 4:18, NKJV, “There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear”.  A few verses later he will say (1 John 5:3, NKJV), “For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments.”  When we fear to disobey God, which leads us to live a faithful Christian life, fear is dispelled for we have no reason for fear.  We are walking with God, doing his will, and we know he will not cast us out.  We do not fear God’s condemnation any longer.  We can confidently say along with Paul that there is a crown of righteousness laid up for us (2 Tim. 4:8, NKJV).  This freedom from fear is available to the young Christian, not just the old, for as we walk with the Lord keeping his commandments there is no cause for fear.  By being afraid to disobey we are freed from fear.

 

But how do we obey when we are afraid to obey as Peter was?  Many people take it for granted that fear is an emotion over which we have no control.  They would say that if we are afraid we are afraid and there is nothing that we can do about it.  Is that correct?  How can the Lord condemn us for being fearful or cowardly, as we are told will be the case in Rev. 21:8, if such fear is beyond our control?  If fear is so strong it just totally overwhelms us to the point where we cannot control ourselves and are forced by it to disobey God then how can a righteous judge condemn us?

 

The truth is self evident.  If we had no control over fear then God would not be just in condemning us.  Since we will be condemned if we are fearful or cowardly it means necessarily that we have some control, some ability, to manage fear.  I think we all understand that what God condemns is not fear itself but the fear that holds us back from obedience.  He is not condemning a little faster heart rate or an adrenaline rush or shaking knees and sweating palms. 

 

To a degree fear is a matter of choice.  I do not have to be afraid.  It is my choice.  It becomes a matter of mind over matter.  What is the worse that can happen to a faithful Christian?  Is it that by obeying God’s command he would die, or be killed, and go to heaven?  Is that the worse that can happen?  That is what we are living the Christian life for.  That is our goal. 

 

The Hebrew writer tells us that God has said, “’I will never leave you nor forsake you.’  So we may boldly say:  ‘The Lord is my helper; I will not fear.  What can man do to me?’”  (Heb. 13:5-6, NKJV)  A passage that has given strength to many is Philipians 4:13, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”  We need to concentrate on building our faith. 

 

Paul wrote in 1 Cor. 16:13 (NKJV) that we are to “Watch, stand fast in the faith, be brave, be strong.”  The old King James version says, “quit you like men” and tells us to “be strong”.  So, it is our choice.  We can be cowardly and fearful and like the children of Israel be afraid to obey God and enter the promised land or we can be brave and act in obedience even though our knees may shake trusting in God to not forsake us.  It is a matter of faith, the faith that overcomes the world.